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 I’ve just released XConfessions Volume 8! 

You can download it here (use code 30XC8 for a 30% discount)

Another day, another volume of XConfessions! It feels like only yesterday that I started on this decade long mission, but looking at my work now and how it is evolving and developing, I wouldn’t change a thing.

XConfessions‘ eighth volume contains the widest breadth of predilections yet. There is passion, romance and tenderness. Kinky exploration and exhibitionism, imagination, artistry and two short films from our Guest Directors. These are your fantasies coming to life while the Lust family keeps on growing!

We have role-play within a previously sexless marriage in Let Me See Your Ponytail Swing / I Want A Viking Warrior, vs. a latex fetish in Latex Sessions. A deeply moving emotional journey through time in Memory Files of You leads us onto a parallel universe where men function as submissive pieces of furniture in our (Guest Directed) Meanwhile in a Parallel Universe! Read on to find out what else there is in store in this volume that contains the latest 10 erotic short films from XConfessions!

As always, every single short film was inspired by the sexual stories you sent anonymously to XConfessions.com. Keep on submitting, I rely on your filthy imaginations! Watch the trailer below:

Latex Sessions- feat. Amarna Miller and Parker Marx

Public Submission – feat. Mickey Mod and Maria Agrado

Memory Files of You – feat. Maria Agrado and Parker Marx

Let Me See Your Ponytail Swing / I Want A Viking Warrior – feat. Viktoria Vaar and Sylvan

Dacrifilia – feat. Silvia Rubi and Maximilian Gambero

Meanwhile in a Parallel Universe

– feat. Lina Bembe, Sasha Krohn and Natalia, Guest Directed by the fabulous Hadas Hinkis!

Sweet But Psycho – feat. Amarna Miller, Mickey Mod, Vex Ashley and Owen Gray

Birthday Surprise – feat. Poppy Cox and Danny Dips

Guest Directed by my good friend Pau Pappel!

Can vampires smelly  my period? – feat. Parker Marx and Misha Cross

Hysterical Piano Concert – feat. Monica Ox, Joel Tomas, Maria Riot, Jowy & Eze

Download XConfessions Vol. 8 now at the Lust Store! Use the code 30XC8 for 30% off
Check out all the XConfessions volumes!

If you have a secret confession or fantasy, why not submit it on my site, and who knows – it may end up on the next volume…! And don’t forget to check what’s coming next in XConfessions!

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“It’s time for porn to change, and for that we need women, we need women in the leadership roles, as producers, as directors as scriptwriters. I don’t want to get women out of porn. I want to get women into porn. We need women in porn. Behind the camera”  (Erika Lust for TEDxVienna December 2014)

 

I am opening a call worldwide for female film directors. I want to find the next wave of adult female filmmakers, who please the eyes and tantalize the senses, who inspire and arouse and contribute to my mission to change porn.

 

I believe in having women behind the camera in all key positions, and the importance of the female gaze in a male dominated porn industry. I have produced and directed over 100 shorts, and have more than 100,000 members on my site XConfessions, where anonymous members of the public submit their fantasies and experiences; out of which I choose two a month to interpret into adult cinematic shorts.

  

ABOUT THE PROJECT

After working with several guest directors  I have decided that I want to continue producing adult cinema with women at the helm. A good example of my work with other directors is this recent short, The Bitchhiker, on XConfessions.com , directed by Olympe de G– watch the trailer below.

 

 

I have budgeted €250,000 for the project as a whole, with different amounts dedicated to different films. I am offering my support and funding for you to make a short film with explicit sex. You will need to source your own cast and crew, locations, write your script. You will have creative control, but we will be your support: especially in terms of legal aspects, documentation, information about working in adult cinema and finding appropriate performers. I want to start a global community of female filmmakers. I want to confront mainstream porn and make feminist erotica relevant, not the exception. I want a new kind of adult cinema to spread across the world and I am looking for women to help me. 

 

ABOUT YOU

I am looking mainly for women. I need creative minds with filmmaking experience. If your idea is great, and you can get a cast and crew, we’ll talk about business

 

I’d rather not give these opportunities to those already making adult cinema – rather I want to reach minds that are untapped and perhaps haven’t even considered making erotica before discovering that it can be realistic, representative and artistic.

 

I want applicants from all over the world. We will be producing 10 short films made by new female directors during 2017.

 

WHAT YOU NEED TO HAVE

–       Proven experience in filmmaking (Do you have a reel?)

–       A desire to represent female sexuality outside of mainstream clichés

–       The time and dedication to make a short film

–       A script/treatment/moodboard of your idea

–       A budget (I have allocated €250,000 for the whole project, not per film)

–       Understanding of my ethics and my films

  

HOW TO APPLY

You need to send an email, and you need to prove you are legit! If you can send us a PDF dossier of all your materials (not too much please!) including;

–       Script/treatment and moodboard for a film no longer than 15 mins

–       A profile on yourself and your experiences in film + CV

–       A short explanation of your vision and why you want to be involved in the project.

 

Send your application to  me and I’ll get back to you soon: erikalust@lustfilms.com

I look forward to working with you!

EXTRA NOTES:

There is no deadline to submit.

Any requests to be involved, in any capacity such as performer, director etc. should be emailed to the address above.

Requests to apply, applications or pitches posted in the comments below will not be counted.

The specifications to apply are in the post above! If you can’t take the time to read the post, how will you make a short film?

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NEW RELEASE | Lust Cinema
Spicing Up The Marriage by New Sensations

Jacky St. James is back to Lust Cinema! I love every single one of her films – she definitely is the future of ethical adult cinema! And this release is no exception, in fact I think it’s one of her best. Spicing Up The Marriage is here! Watch the trailer below:

Recently I released another of Jacky’s films about being in a marriage and keeping the sex alive in lesbian relationships. This film features purely heterosexual couples – and although you’d expect it to be full of clichés, Jacky makes it feel super fresh, organic and exciting! What I loved most about this film was the joy in the sex. Every one of the performers (who act really well, as well as being amazing performers in the sex scenes) always has a delicious smile across their face. And it’s not cheesy – they’re sexy and erotic and sensual. The men are equally passionate, rather than being the typical pure “macho” we’re so used to seeing in mainstream porn.

Jacky St. James’ work is ideal, in my opinion, for those looking for some really hot, hard sex – without the misogynistic name-calling and power struggle. Her films are structured around romantic, sensitive stories that catch your attention as well as your desires, and interspersed with this is some seriously intense sex.

The latest in the “Tales from the Heart” series is Spicing Up The Marriage – four stories, four couples, four tales of sexual (re)discovery, experimentation and liberation!

When work and responsibility begin to pull a young couple apart, good old fashioned love letters serve as the perfect remedy for their dry spell. After dedicating one day a week to satisfying one another, a husband and wife discover that sometimes the hottest sex is the kind you actually planned for. An inhibited woman transforms into an insatiable sex goddess when she allows her husband to photograph erotic nudes of her. Working out becomes the ultimate foreplay after a couple enjoys a steamy encounter at the gym. 

Jacky knows how to communicate good sex in cinema, so you can expect loads of honest and open conversations between the couples – plus some intense foreplay and tons of cunnilingus! Of course, all performed by characters who respect each other and by female characters who are active, strong and with lots of initiative. Just as it should be!

So what are you waiting for Lusties? We release a new film every week on Lust Cinema, alternating between my XConfessions series and ethical, fantastic adult cinema from the future of porn Directors and production houses. You can watch this and more now in Lust Cinema!

Or… download it in HD from my store.

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Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!

I wrote you a poem yesterday to celebrate this most joyous of holidays, to get myself into the Christmas spirit. And also because 2500 DVDs had just arrived in the office…

‘Twas the day before Christmas, 

And all through the Store,

The Lust Team were wrapping, 

Sex toys, and much more!

There were how-to guides,

and new XConfessions, 

Ball-gags and vibrators,

And things too hot to mention

And a Merry Christmas from the strong, fantastic women in my team who carried all those DVDs into the office two days ago. Who run the world? You know!

Now remember, today is a day where you can eat so much that your stomach hurts, children are allowed chocolate for breakfast and Cava in bed is a very reasonable expectation. Thank you for being such incredible supporters of the movement towards ethical adult cinema. And if you are new to the Lust family, welcome! Next year has some big things in store, and I hope you will be right here with me to explore, discover and excite.

Much love and warm kisses,

Erika xxx

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The Making of XConfessions Vol.8 has landed!

I just released the behind the scenes, making of XConfessions Volume 8! You can download it here

use code 30XC8 for a 30% discount on Vol. 8

And watch “Behind the Camera” here:

What did you think of Volume 8? For this volume I tried to incorporate a really wide range of themes- touching on passion, romance and tenderness; kinky exploration and exhibitionism; and imagination and artistry. It was an absolute dream to shoot too, with all of my favourite performers, many of whom know each-other well and enjoy working with each-other and myself! It’s always a pleasure especially to work with Maria Agrado – who only ever performs in adult cinema with me! You can see her in Public Submission with Mickey Mod and Memory Files of You with Parker Marx.

As always, every film within the collection was inspired by the sexual stories you sent anonymously to XConfessions.com. I couldn’t have done it without you! Watch the trailer for XConfessions Vol. 8 here:

 

I’m very pleased with this new collection. Me and my fantastic team worked very hard to bring you new and exciting films that confront the mainstream porn clichés and keep you on the edge of your seat. It’s my mission to keep surprising you.

We also have two Guest Directors on this volume!!

Hadas Hinkis directs a surreal, unusual hipster’s wet dream called “Meanwhile in a Parallel Universe”; and my good friend Pau Pappel returns with the gorgeous Poppy Cox (and her real-life boyfriend) in “Birthday Suprise”!

 

Download XConfessions Vol. 8now at the Lust Store! Use the code 30XC8 for 30% off
Check out all the XConfessions volumes!

 

If you have a secret confession or fantasy, why not submit it on my site, and who knows – it may end up on the next volume…! And don’t forget to check what’s coming next in XConfessions!

 

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NEW RELEASE | XConfessions
Memory Files of You

This week on XConfessions is a very special release. Based on a fantastically imaginative confession, around the future of technology and what Virtual Reality could do for us in the future, I’ve shot an especially intimate, romantic and emotionally stirring film that I am super, super proud of!

The year is 2097. A man is longing for a love lost, a woman from his past who he can’t forget. He enters a room and picks up a Virtual Reality headset. And within minutes, he is transported back in time, back to those experiences that he has captured through his camera. Her smile, her hands. Her hair gently blowing in a soft breeze. The sunlight brightens a sparse, modern room, where his younger self and his lover lie down together. Their intimacy is passionate, hungry, full of love and desperate tenderness. He doesn’t have her, but he still has the memories that take him back to her. Trailer below!

https://vimeo.com/187148683

I really enjoyed working with the gorgeously matched and gracious, natural beauties that are Parker Marx and Maria Agrado, as the couple from the past (or our future) in the midst of romantic bliss. Playfully videotaping her as she wanders through their garden, or as she dresses and dances, the couple then shed their clothes and have the kind of sex that is not only deeply arousing, but moves something within you. Playing the older gentleman is Jaume de Sans, whose piercing blue eyes are full of such longing, such loss that it almost brings you to tears. Or at least, I hope it does!

For this film I collaborated with the exquisite luxury lingerie label Botica, who made the sheer nude underwear that Maria wears so beautifully. Futuristic in it’s seemingly seamless styling, Botica are based in Madrid.

If what you have been looking for is a representation of romantic intimacy, of love-making rather than just fucking, then this film is for you. Watch it from today on XConfessions!

Did you like the film? Do you have a saucy secret or a weird and wonderful fantasy? Why don’t you write me your story on XConfessions! It’s free to submit, and I might choose it to turn into an erotic shirt film!

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I am very pleased and excited to announce the launch of a new project – The Porn Conversation.

Myself and my partner Pablo Dobner have two beautiful children. And while the work that we do (Pablo is the CEO of Erika Lust Films) has so far been a separate part of our lives to that of our children, they are getting to an age where we know that soon they will start stumbling across the kind of mainstream porn online that we have spent the past decade trying to combat. According to statistics, children as young as 9 or 10 are accidentally viewing pornography – whether it’s through a nasty pop-up that slips past content controls on their iPad, or something their older friends show them, or any number of different scenarios.

So we started talking with each other about what we can do to protect our children. How can we help them to understand what it is that they are going to be seeing? How will they know that what they see isn’t realistic – in fact, the majority of mainstream porn is violently misogynistic, with damaging ideas about how men and women should look and behave, especially during sex? Are they getting the right kind of Sex Ed at school that will prepare them for encountering this kind of content? And what effect will it have on a generation who seem to learn most of what they know from what they see online – especially sex.

We realised that the responsibility for our children lay in our hands. That having a conversation with them, sooner rather than later, seemed like the best solution to the pervasive ideas of pornography that are going to being to infiltrating their lives before they are ready to understand it, let alone be of an appropriate age to be watching it.

And we also realised that this subject is still a huge taboo – and an even larger one in terms of talking to kids and teenagers about it. It is difficult and horrifying enough to think about having the “birds and the bees” chat with our teenagers – but to talk to them about porn? That sends shivers down our spines. But what is the other alternative? That they watch this content and feel like those are the ways in which they should treat each other? That men and women shouldn’t have hair, or cellulite, or an ounce of fat? That defining your sexuality in terms of racial categorisations is acceptable, or that lesbianism is only a tool to attract men?

The Porn Conversation is our attempt to help. To start an online community of people that start talking about porn with each other, and with their children. We have created guides for three different age demographics, that parents can use to start thinking about and having the porn talk with their own children, plus an ever-growing archive of videos and articles around the subject, so that you don’t have to rely on our experiences as parents and creators in the adult cinema industry. It is a not for profit project, built purely with the intention of starting a global conversation about porn and it’s role in all of our lives. But especially in the lives of our children.

I hope that if you are a parent you are ready to take the first steps on this journey with us. It’s going to be difficult, but I believe the results will be more rewarding than we could begin to imagine. To open up these conversations, to start educating our kids in porn, in what they choose to watch or they make an effort to avoid. In the hope that in the future, our children can have healthy, respectful and loving relationships with their partners – and with themselves.

There are articles and videos here, and if you have any questions you can leave them in the comments below or email us at talk@thepornconversation.org

I look forward to hearing your views! Let’s start educating our kids in porn. Time for The Porn Conversation.

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A guide for guys, girls, theys and members of all genders and sexualities for blowing someone good

I’d love to do some guides on transgender oral sex – so if you can leave me links, articles and other examples in the comments below, that’d be beautiful! My next guide will be on cunnilingus, so if you have a vagina, don’t feel sad… you’re next

Build-up

If you get them hard and gagging for it beforehand, it’ll be a lot easier for them to enjoy it. Tell them what you’re going to do, ask them, “do you want me to…”, hold their hands above their head and slowly kiss their neck and ears. Briefly kiss their nipples (they’re not very sensitive for most men) and then decide how much teasing you want to do. Starting by kissing and sucking their feet and going all the way up their legs until you reach the pay-load is always popular – but if they’re shy they might worry about smelly feet, so just kissing around their pelvic bones and their thighs is good too.

 Breath

Before touching them with your hands, do one long lick along their length, and exhale over them. Breath is hot and is a nice way to tease. If you have breasts, brushing your nipple along them in the same motion is good too.

Spit

You want it as wet as possible. This varies from cock to cock – some are more sensitive than others. But especially if you use your hands, you want it nice and wet because a dry hand-job is painful af. There is never too much spit (I mean, don’t gurgle and gob on it) and with a bit of practice you can spit from slightly above it and he can watch it drip onto his cock. Gorgeous.

Ask what they want

I mean, you don’t have to pre-empt a blowjob with chit-chat over a cup of cocoa (unless you both want to, which is actually super sexy and informative) but during the experience, especially at the beginning, try and find out what they like. Do they want you to grip harder or softer? Slow teasing or right for the gullet? Which part is more sensitive, here… or here? Vocal communication also helps stop the old “grab the back of the head and shove it down their throat” technique.

The shaft is for your hands, the head is for your tongue and mouth

This is a general rule for beginners or the less confident. The head of the penis is where all the sensitivity is – especially in the area under the rim, and where the foreskin (if they have it) connects to the head. Once you’re more confident, or nearer the end of the experience, you can take more into your mouth, but if you’re not ready yet, or they’re particularly big, putting the whole of the head in your mouth and then griping tightly on their shaft and moving your hand up and down should get the “job” done.

Hand and head combo-motion 2.0

Once you’re confident at the above stage, you can start moving your mouth further down and taking more in. Try keeping to the same rhythm as your hand and in the same direction otherwise you’ll get confused. Remember, lips over teeth. Also experiment here and see what makes him moan – you can use a slight twisting motion with your wrist, or just use two fingers or press the palm of your hand inwards on his shaft. And your mouth and tongue can explore – kind of like you’re making out with it, if you were doing the “washing machine” and were really bad at making out.

Deepthroating… a word to the wise.

Don’t do it when you’re drunk. Don’t do it for the first time with someone you don’t know. Don’t let them grab you by the head and force it all the way back. Firstly because, ew I’m not your fuck-machine, and secondly because this will result in him hitting your gag reflex and you vomiting all over him. It happens more often than you’d think.

Don’t worry if they go soft

It’s not a reflection on you. It happens. Maybe they’re tired, they’re nervous, they’re insecure. If they give you even a moment’s bullshit about it, they’re an asshole. If it happens, pause and ask “is it my turn?” or “shall we take a break? or do you want me to do something differently?” Maybe they just take a little longer to get hard!

Make noises

God knows why – maybe it’s the patriarchy, maybe it’s innate “animal instinct” or whatever fake pseudo science bullshit, or maybe it’s just because they like feeling sexy (I think it’s this one), but making noises always gets a guy harder and more than that, if you start gagging they lose their mind over how they’re so big that they make you gag.

No Vampires

No teeth. Even if you think it might feel nice, teasing, it ruins the whole experience when you remind them that you could realistically chomp down at any second and cause serious pain. Unless that’s what they’re into – but ask first, it’s only polite.

It’s not really a “blow” job.

“Sucking him off” is a far more accurate description. You know when you’re sucking on an ice lolly and your cheeks go all concave? Doing that feels good. Real good. If they have foreskin, roll it down and then put the whole of the head in your mouth, with your lips closing under the rim, and then suck. You can move your hands at the same time too.

Look ’em in the eyes

It’s hot, you’re hot, you look hot with their cock in your mouth even if you don’t think so, seeing them watching you is hot, seeing their eyes rolls back and the pleasure all over their face is hotter and will make you more confident. If they’re staring at you and showing no enjoyment, get up, thank them for their time and spend the next few weeks watching the news for stories of a serial killer on the run.

Balls-deep

If you’ve got jaw-ache, or you’re nervous, the balls are an amazing way to take a break. Never forget they’re there, and that they enjoy being involved too. Putting one or both in your mouth while rubbing their shaft feels good, and teasing them before you start.

Coaxing

Use a firmer grip as you move your hand up the shaft, like trying to squeeze the last of the paint out of a tube.

To swallow or not to swallow?

This is totally up to you. Firstly, they should ask you if they can come in your mouth – or you can tell them before you get started whether you’re into it or not. Secondly, if you want to swallow, go right ahead, it’s not dirty, it’s (normally… unless they’re a heavy smoker/unclean) delicious. Thirdly, if you want to spit, that’s cool too. Try not to make “ew gross” faces though because c’mon, if someone gave you oral sex and then reacted with disgust, you’d feel pretty shitty right?

Bask in the glow of your achievement

But remember, after a man ejaculates his body tells him to go to sleep. So if he is super quiet afterwards and gets all sleepy, don’t worry, you didn’t bore him, he just had a really good time. He’ll show you later how good it was by reciprocation. And if he doesn’t, he’s an asshole and you should leave him immediately.

Helpful? I have several other voices in the industry dying to give you their tips and tricks! Head on over to Erotic Films for:

Pierre Roshan’s Guide The Ultimate Blowjob

and Drik Liessenfeld’s Prostate Massage: G-Spot for Men

Amarna Miller directs herself in a POV blowjob scene in one of three films on 3 by Amarna

and I’ve directed A Blowjob is Always a Great Last Minute Gift Idea and Slo Blo Mo Job

With thanks to: Vice, Lelo, etc for doing all the research for me.

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We have a new artist on XConfessions!

Introducing Noelia Torres!

“From the darkest side of my world
to the most colorful palette”

Noelia Torres is a Barcelona born artist, currently living in Chicago. Unlike a lot of the artists I find, Noelia was recommended to me by one of my colleagues in the office! As soon as I saw her intelligent, witty and gorgeous work I knew she’d match the XConfessions site perfectly. Noelia enjoys knitting, collecting lingerie and being a subject for other artists. She keeps herself busy by immersing herself in a creative world of her own and continuing to challenge personal and cultural boundaries.

“Her body of work is a mix of her own reality, her wildest dreams and her deepest thoughts. She finds inspiration in feminist culture through the lens of her own experiences and strong and sexually liberated female figures who are part of her life; often illustrating these ideas as witty monochromatic statements. 
Anthropomorphism is an important component of her painting work where creates a fantasy world to synthesize human and animal traits in allegorical-esque portraits and still lives. “

For my next release, “Can you be a feminist and submissive?” I wanted to gather a lot of voices around the subject of BDSM – and Noelia has some very interesting and insightful thoughts. Keep reading for her interview below!

Hi Noelia! Can you tell me a bit about how and why you started working in these black and white illustrations? And the same with your oil paintings?
These black illustrations came from the need to take a brake from color. Sometimes I get overwhelmed and need a different medium that allows me to be someone else, something to let myself go and relax and express myself faster than if I was doing an actual painting, which can take me months to finish. I need an outlet with immediate results and I find relief on paper&pen. The mean girls series were a way to illustrate my thoughts at that moment. I have a lot of ideas, constantly, at all times, and these in particular were sentences I came up with or found them very inspring and I needed to add some imagery to make them aesthetically pleasant but also tell a story at the same time.
Each one of these illustrations has a lot of background story behind them, so we’d have to analyze them one by one. Let’s just say they all depict feelings I’ve had at some point of my life or I currently have, or just my response to things I’ve been told by men.

What made you want to collaborate with XConfessions?
My dear friend Alba Cardona became a staff member and introduced me to Erika Lust’s world. I immediately fell in love and then I realized some of my favorite porn/erotic performers who I admire were part of it too. Alba reached out to me and asked if I wanted to be a featured artist and I did not hesitate… I am so honored! You guys rule and you are truly changing the porn industry. Keep it up!
A lot of your work is on the subject of BDSM, as well as strong, often aggressive women. What draws you to representing women like that?
I guess it all started from a very strong attraction to its aesthetic. I started gravitating towards all things “Kinky” and realized how appealing I found BDSM.
Turning these things I love into illustrations is a way for me to let women take control and break free from all the oppression we have been and are still being put through. It’s a way to show we are fearless and strong, and we won’t take shit from anyone.

Do you see a dichotomy between feminism and BDSM, or more specifically, do you think you can be a feminist and be submissive?
I often get the classic “but how can you call yourself a feminist when your images represent women punishing men? Isn’t feminism about equality?” and then we have the classic “but you are not a feminist if you like men to dominate you” to which I have several responses for both of these things.
I see BDSM as role playing in which both parts agree on taking their roles. Sometimes you dominate, sometimes you are dominated. Informed consent plays an essential part in this. None of these practices represent my social values, it’s just something I do in my bedroom, in the privacy of my own house. This community is very inclusive and there is a wild range of practices. It can go from soft and mild to life threatening, but what I love about it is how it allows you to explore and push your boundaries and you are able to find out things you didn’t know about yourself. It is for everyone willing to embrace it.
When it comes to my work, the images I create are often very aggressive because I apply the BDSM doctrine into social injustice. I make art against rape culture, I talk about killing your rapist, I tell women they don’t need oppressive men, I encourage women to not be ashamed of their sexual orientation despite their age, gender or race. I fight racism, I show no respect for sexist men.

What’s in the future for your work?
I just finished the biggest paintings I’ve done in years and they will be displayed at a pop-up in here in Chicago. I made some totebags that I will be selling (you can also order them through my website) as well as some prints from the mean girls series.
I guess I will just keep on painting, getting inspired by the wonderful people and things that cross my path.

If you could describe yourself in one image, what would that be? 

Did you ever find a good visual representation of an orgasm? If so, can you share it with us? 

And don’t forget to watch out for the release of Feminist and Submissive!

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NEW RELEASE | Lust Cinema
Fetish Sessions by XPlastic

It’s getting very kinky this week over on Lust Cinema! Did you know we release a new film every Friday on Lust Cinema? Become a member for the biggest breadth of ethical, forward-thinking adult cinema you can find online!

Powerhouse producers XPlastic are back with another totally indie, alternative adult short film. The concept is to introduce BDSM to those working in the adult industry in Brazil – for the first time. Gear up for some seriously painful, and ultimately pleasurable watching that captures the first-time experiences of people discovering BDSM, under the skilled hands of Shibari master Toshi San. With forced orgasms, rope bondage, spreader bars and more, our willing victim is taken to a place of delirious pleasure and excruciating pain. The film opens however, as we should be encouraging more BDSM films to do, with a discussion of what will be done to her, and what toys they will use. Ensuring a safe play between sub and Dom is crucial in BDSM play, and XPlastic have made a huge effort to highlight this. It also serves to tease us as to what will happen, and what we can expect…

Don’t try this at home!

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Say hello to Owen Gray! If you don’t know who he is yet, buckle your seatbelts – because Owen is a man of substance, of intelligence, plus he’s gorgeous to boot! I’ve worked with him four times now, in a variety of scenes – from “I Put a Pagan Spell on You” with his close friend Vex Ashley, to a foursome in “Sweet but Psycho“. In a few weeks I’m releasing “I’m Obsessed with Owen Gray“, where Owen meets a real-life fan for the first time on camera, and they have sex. It’s an incredibly intimate, moving film, and I can’t wait to share it with you! This week however, we are focussing on his next release with me, “Feminist and Submissive“. In the film, Owen dominates Lina Bembe (having previously discussed rules, desires and safe-play together beforehand), and the film features a round-table including myself and voices within the industry discussing whether you can be a feminist and be submissive in the bedroom. I wanted to hear more of Owen’s opinion on BDSM, as his tumblr FAQ’s led me to realise that he has A LOT of very interesting, insightful things to say on the subject. His exploration of BDSM both on the sub and Dom sides is fascinating, so if you want to know more, keep reading! But be warned – consumption of this material may lead to a little bit of a crush…

Hi Owen! So, what was it like shooting your first BDSM scene with me? Was it different from working at kink.com and other places?

It was very fluid in what myself and Lina wanted to do which was nice because it would involve a bit more sensuality than most typical BDSM scenes. Often times working with companies like Kink.com it is focused on a specific fetish where there isn’t a lot of flexibility in the general storyline. This scene was a bit more playful and I enjoyed being able to discuss with you my thoughts on how to approach dominating Lina once I learned about Lina’s interests.

Can you divulge as to what drew you to BDSM?

When I first started exploring BDSM I was curious as to learn what the mind could feel by stimulating the body in different ways. I approached it not from a sexual point but purely physical sensation as I had stronger masochistic tendencies that I wanted to understand. I eventually met lovers who I explored BDSM with in a sexual context and found the strong connections where our interests aligned.

You’ve said on your blog that you have tried being both dominant and submissive. Can you tell me about the power dynamic for you in these scenes – do you feel more powerful in one or the other? Do you feel that when you are subbing, perhaps you are actually the one in control, and vice versa?

In my experience I feel mostly a sense of responsibility when doing anything BDSM more so than focusing on the idea of being powerful. I have never identified as feeling submissive and typically when people treat me that way I just feel irritated. When I am submitting my body to another person I am more focused on being able to dissolve in to an over stimulation of my senses and to release emotion that I often feel I must contain because of expected roles in our culture. When playing a dominant role I enjoy being playful but I can also be very strict depending on the dynamic. When dominant I am fully aware of my partners boundaries as I feel like they are in a place of indulgence and am focused on their pleasure. While there are dominant activities that I enjoy more than others they would hold no pleasure for me if they weren’t what my partner wanted. As well when in a place of someone dominating me I think there is an equal responsibility for me to communicate my boundaries both prior and during the experience. It’s important for me to be aware of what my body is going through when heavy amounts of pain are being inflicted and when I can communicate to either slow down or stop.

Do you think a man can be a feminist and be a dominant? Is there a dichotomy between the two, or is that just a social construct around masculinity and violence? (Virginie Despentes once said “all masculinity is linked to violence” in media and society etc.)

Certainly, I would like to believe that the two can exist together quite easily. To myself being feminist simply means that I believe women are equal and should be treated as such. I think that it means that a woman should have to power to pursue her own desires without the criticism of others, including other women, because what may be empowering or desirable is going to be dramatically different for all individuals. In a BDSM type setting there should always be healthy communication with clear boundaries. While different people have approached BDSM differently, I would not ask someone to do something that I haven’t experiences being inflicted on myself in some manner, let alone something that they just simply said no to. I think that masculinity often can be violent but not all who identify as masculine are violent or are even men. While there certainly is violence in the world I think that with the overbearing pressure for young men to identify as being manly that having a stronger balance of feminism in men and supporting them in being more in touch with their feelings and gender could help that a lot.

You work a lot with me, and with ethical, progressive companies such as Four Chambers. Can you tell me a little about why you enjoy working in porn that is more indie and alternative, and consciously pushing against the mainstream?

I think in a much broader sense than the porn industry that our culture pushes for a prescribed type of sex on camera, an “ideal” that people are told is the most desirable to attain. These ideals are often very unrealistic to how people have sex in real life and how people enjoy sex in general which leaves people being confused, insecure, and often feeling inadequate. I enjoy working with smaller companies who are pushing to show an alternative to sexuality in general. It’s easy to target the general mainstream porn industry because they are following the capitalist agenda to make a product that sells when often everyone is happy to ignore mainstream movies and television where the same patterns of unhealthy sex and relationships are being shown constantly. I would like to hope that in time these companies showing a healthier representation of sex and communication around sex and relationships will slowly have an impact. At least from the people who follow me online I am told they do.

Do you think BDSM has infiltrated the mainstream, and if so is this good or bad?

It has definitely broken in to the mainstream which I think has plenty of positive and negative impacts. I think that it’s important for people to be aware of healthy alternatives to vanilla sex and to not feel alone in their search for what they would like to explore within their own sexuality. Demystifying BDSM and fetish will help people not feel as though something is wrong with them and that they are not alone. It will also in time help people understand that BDSM is not abuse and can be done consensually in a wonderfully fun way for all people involved. The negative impacts I think are where people don’t understand consent and respecting people’s boundaries. Some people want to say that they are in to BDSM when really they want non consensual control over the other person which is terrible and is definitely not BDSM.

See Owen in my newest release this Thursday, Feminist and Submissive. Some seriously hot sex, plus a discussion on Feminism that includes me, and several other voices in the industry!

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Feminist and Submissive

Are you ready to make “the personal political” Lusties?! This week I am tearing up the rule-book and combining some filthy, sexy BDSM with an intense and intricate round table discussion. Sex and politics are rarely seen as a sexy combination of subjects. Bring up gender politics or feminism at an orgy and you will literally hear the collective sigh and the hard-ons receding. But I promise you, this is intellectual stimulation like no other!

For Feminist and Submissive, I brought together a group of women, from sex workers to journalists, to discuss the seemingly dichotomous subject: “Can you be a feminist and submissive?” Watch the trailer below!

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I see myself as a feminist. I like to challenge people on their opinions even if they are just a little bit sexist. I care about showing off my female sexuality, and I wish that this was more accepted in our society. My boyfriend probably thinks I would like to dominate a man and overrule him with my female sexuality. But my dirtiest fantasy is actually to BE dominated by man.
A random man who is so attracted by my female sexual expression that he can’t resist me. He would grab my filthy ass really hard and tell me that he is going to fuck me no matter what I say. He goes under my skirt and starts to eat my pussy, still with my panties on, while he tells me how much he loves my wet pussy and how much he’s wanted it for a long time. He will rip off my clothes and talk very dirty and harsh to me. He will lead the whole act, and I will enjoy being thrown around by a man who knows what he wants. There will be spanking, ass licking, pussy eating, dick sucking and a lot of sex poses that he demands. It will be very intense and in the end I will feel blown away as we both lie down sweaty and exhausted.

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But don’t worry, there’s still plenty of sex! Accompanying this round table in my longest film for XC yet is a BDSM (an overlapping abbrevation of Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, Sadism and Masochism) scene featuring the hugely experienced Dom, Master Owen Gray, and the sweet yet fiercely intelligent Lina Bembe as the submissive.

The round table includes Lina in the discussion, and I felt it was super important to show you, as my audience, her full consent and what’s more, not just a quick 30 seconds of her confirming consent, but a long discussion of the intricacies and personal kinks of her fetishism. Before shooting the scene, myself and Owen discussed with Lina her boundaries and limits, what she was interested in exploring and what she was nervous to explore. In his interview with me this week, Owen discusses working on his first BDSM shoot with me, and explains how well his and Lina’s preferences in terms of kink worked together. They both wanted sensual, passionate and fun play, rather than only focussing on pain or degradation.

Within the round table we also myself  hosting the discussion, plus Silvia Rubí, who is experienced in both topping and subbing; Viktoria Vaar, a sex worker, feminist and activist who recently shot her first ever adult film with me for “Let Me See Your Ponytail Swing“; and Daisy Bata, a journalist and writer with experience writing under pseudonyms on the subjects of feminism, politics and kink.

For those new to BDSM, or unsure of it’s role within sex and relationships, this film is an enlightening and inspiring journey that may convince you to try a few things out yourself… and for those already within the BDSM world, I hope you see it as a fresh take on the usual mainstream work that there is a plethora of on the internet!

You can watch interviews with Owen and Lina, and see the other films they’ve shot with Erika on XConfessions. You can also find out a little more about the guest stars in the film!

And watch the whole film from today on XConfessions!

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