3. Don’t forget other erogenous zones.

We all know the obvious ones – nipples, neck etc. but find out where else makes her feel pleasure and the combination of penetration and other stimulation will double the fun.

4. No fisting beforehand.

The vagina does stretch (although it also stretches back) but by putting something large up there, you’re only going to force comparison.

 TIP: Women can train their pelvic floor muscles with kegel exersizes: The Personal Pleasure Trainer

5. If she likes anal or anal pleasure, try using a butt plug.

This will push into the vaginal wall and make her feel tighter, and if you’re lucky and have a vibrating one, you’ll be able to feel it too.

 TIP: You can get different sized and vibrating butt plugs: The Tano Vibrating Plug

6. Try touching around the area you enter.

If she likes it, you can start slipping fingers inside her too while you penetrate her slowly.

 TIP: Or you can try this couples vibrator: We Vibe 4 Couples

Position 1: The Flexed Doggy Style.

In this position you start in doggy style, but the woman puts her chest and head on the bed, with her bottom in the air. The male penetrates her from behind but moves his knees back slightly and tilts his pelvis forward for a deeper penetration.

Position 2: The Propped Reverse Cowgirl.

Like cowgirl, but with a pillow under his bottom to elevate his penis and get a deeper penetration.

Position 3: The Side Cowgirl.

Again like cowgirl, but the woman swings both legs over to one side and leans back onto the male’s torso. This creates more of an angle and therefore a different sensation.

Position 4: The Pile Driver.

This is for people with good knees and a little thigh strength. The woman lies on her back with her knees by her shoulders, while he squats in front of her. You can lean on her rib cage for balance as you move in and out.

Position 5: Upside Down Cowgirl.

Cowgirl, but with his head and back leaning off the bed. This forces his pelvis up and his cock deeper.

1. Always at the beginning let her take control.

Last thing you want is to lose control and hurt her.

2. Start off slow.

3. Use loads of lube.

The wetter the vagina, the easier and more pleasurable it will be for both of you.

 TIP: Get yourselves ready: Premium Water Based Lubricant

4. Have a lot of foreplay. 

If you are really big, maybe try using some sex toys first.

5. Avoid doggy style, especially if it’s your first time together.

You can easily hit the cervix and that can hurt.

Position 1: Side by side.

She can hold onto the base of your penis and control how much enters, so that there’s no nasty surprises. It’s essentially like spooning but facing each other, with her legs wrapped around your hips. From here she can grind up and down on you.

Position 2: Spooning.

This position is good if you want to go hard and lose control but need something to stop all of you entering her. The cushioning of her bottom creates a barrier to stop you going too far inside.

Position 3: Cowgirl. 

Essentially anything where the woman can take the reigns is the best option.

Some tips for all penis sizes

Fuck with your hips.

Sex is a whole body motion and there is no formula, or magic rhythm, that will make a great shag. It’s about communicating and figuring out how your bodies fit together – which can change every day.

Most women come from the clitoris, so don’t neglect it.

A lot of women may feel great pleasure from penetration but not actually have an orgasm. So it’s always better to assume they’ll enjoy clitoral stimulation at the same time than assuming they don’t need it. Normally we do.

 TIP: This is a cute beginners toy!: The Diamond Mini Vibe

Communication is key.

Everyone is different – and the best way to find out how to make someone feel good and what they like is to ask them.

Sometimes missionary is the best.

So what if you’re not doing sexual gymnastics all the time? Missionary can be the most intimate of positions.

Slow and steady wins the race.

Or at least, can feel incredible. You don’t always have to be a Duracell Rabbit.

If you’re really worried that your penis won’t feel good (it will), indulge in a lot of foreplay first.

It will get you super hard, her super wet, and that combination is always the best way to build your confidence and help you relax and enjoy yourselves!
and remember to have fun! Everyone is a special and unique snowflake, and the way we have sex and what we enjoy is an ever fluctuating and evolving thing. Conversation about, around and during sex is the beginning of creating a more sex-positive global society. And we all need some cheering up after the news this week…
Got any more tips for different sizes/shapes? Requests for different guides? What do you want to know about? Let me know in the comments below! And good luck…

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NEW RELEASES | Lust Cinema
SUPERMACHO vs. X Girl by Ovidie

Ovidie has done it again! One of my favourite French production houses and directors producing ethically made adult cinema and progressive, forward thinking-work has created an extra special two-parter- a double-release called SUPERMACHO vs. X Girl. The same script, locations and cast were given to two different directors, one male, Dist de Kaerth, and one female, Ovidie, in an effort to show the immense difference between having someone of each gender behind the camera. And the results are as you might (or might not) expect – completely different! Plus, they both feature the ever-popular Stoya! We are releasing the two films separately, but of course you can download both if you’re curious to see the difference for yourself, one here and one here. It’s going to be interesting to see which one is more popular… Check out the trailers below!

X Girl

First up is the film directed by Ovidie, a woman who has been making adult cinema for many years. The film opens with Stoya on a rooftop in Paris smoking a cigarette, minimal (if any) makeup. She goes into her flat and meticulously lays out cups of tea and snacks, ready for a mysterious guest. She has a shower, shaving her legs but deciding not to shave her armpits or her pubic hair, and then putting a small amount of makeup on in her bathroom mirror. She tries on various lipsticks but decides that’s too much. She then tries on different outfits – floaty dresses and cute tops, deciding on no bra and a crop top with baggy jeans – very Parisian casual chic! When her date arrives she’s clearly nervous, but she invites him up and they get down to it…

The film also includes a threesome with another woman, Sabrina, who in this version is shown as the opposite of Stoya, with large breasts and heavy makeup – everything about her screaming “SEX”! But at the end Stoya decides that she’d prefer a threesome with two men, so she introduces her new date to a close friend of hers. They tie her date up and have sex in front of him, teasing him and mocking him, while having the kind of sex that seems full of joy, laughter and mutual respect.

SUPERMACHO

On the opposite end of the spectrum, Dist de Kaerth creates a film that is very typical of mainstream pornography, and one that I found quite hard to watch. The opening shot is not one of her smoking, which is a casual and subtle invitation to look at her lips, but Stoya essentially giving a blow-job to a lollipop. In fact, every aspect of the film is different – down to the fact that Stoya is now shaved and has such heavy makeup on (that she wears in the shower?!) that in comparison to the previous film it almost looks absurd. Every action and movement Stoya makes is performed as if she’s having sex – even if it’s just getting up off the couch – and all performed at an angle where the camera can observe her butt, or her wide-open mouth, or her vagina.

The sex is also utterly different. Where in the version directed by a woman we always see the build up of the moments before sex (hands brushing each other, nervous kisses) here we jump straight from casual flirtation to oral sex in one cut. Stoya spends a good 80% of the film deepthroating whichever cock is closest to her, and at one point they do a position that looks like a helicopter and is so absurd it’s more amusing than erotic. The closing shot, that is frozen as the credits roll, is one of her holding two cocks, face covered in semen, grinning at the camera. Suffice to say this is the opposite kind of film to anything that I would ever want to make.

Ovidie’s experiment is a useful tool in observing the huge difference it can make having a woman behind the camera. The differences in intention, assumed audience and desired outcome is so spectacularly dichotomous it’s eye-opening. Perhaps the film directed by a woman is more aimed at women, but for me it seems far more universal than the one directed by a man, which is so obviously created to make as much money as possible from quick, hard, predictable, chauvinistic sex that men are assumed to desire. In Ovidie’s film, there are mutual exchanges of power, respect and authority. She plays with who is in charge, who is turned on by what, who matches well with whom. In the latter, the women exist firstly for the visual pleasure of a male audience, secondly for the pleasure of the men in the room (even if it’s two women and one man) and lastly for the pleasure of the women – if at all.

Let me know which one you download, if you download both, or if you have any other comments! Are the differences what you expected? Did you find either film enjoyable – or off-putting? Tell me in the comments below!

Don’t waste another minute. Watch it now in Lust Cinema!

Or download them in HD in my store: female version here, and male version here!

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I am very pleased and excited to announce the launch of a new project – The Porn Conversation.

Myself and my partner Pablo Dobner have two beautiful children. And while the work that we do (Pablo is the CEO of Erika Lust Films) has so far been a separate part of our lives to that of our children, they are getting to an age where we know that soon they will start stumbling across the kind of mainstream porn online that we have spent the past decade trying to combat. According to statistics, children as young as 9 or 10 are accidentally viewing pornography – whether it’s through a nasty pop-up that slips past content controls on their iPad, or something their older friends show them, or any number of different scenarios.

So we started talking with each other about what we can do to protect our children. How can we help them to understand what it is that they are going to be seeing? How will they know that what they see isn’t realistic – in fact, the majority of mainstream porn is violently misogynistic, with damaging ideas about how men and women should look and behave, especially during sex? Are they getting the right kid of Sex Ed at school that will prepare them for encountering this kind of content? And what effect will it have on a generation who seem to learn most of what they know from what they see online – especially sex.

We realised that the responsibility for our children lay in our hands. That having a conversation with them, sooner rather than later, seemed like the best solution to the pervasive ideas of pornography that are going to being to infiltrating their lives before they are ready to understand it, let alone be of an appropriate age to be watching it.

And we also realised that this subject is still a huge taboo – and an even larger one in terms of talking to kids and teenagers about it. It is difficult and horrifying enough to think about having the “birds and the bees” chat with our teenagers – but to talk to them about porn? That sends shivers down our spines. But what is the other alternative? That they watch this content and feel like those are the ways in which they should treat each other? That men and women shouldn’t have hair, or cellulite, or an ounce of fat? That defining your sexuality in terms of racial categorisations is acceptable, or that lesbianism is only a tool to attract men?

The Porn Conversation is our attempt to help. To start an online community of people that start talking about porn with each other, and with their children. We have created guides for three different age demographics, that parents can use to start thinking about and having the porn talk with their own children, plus an ever-growing archive of videos and articles around the subject, so that you don’t have to rely on our experiences as parents and creators in the adult cinema industry. It is a not for profit project, built purely with the intention of starting a global conversation about porn and it’s role in all of our lives. But especially in the lives of our children.

I hope that if you are a parent you are ready to take the first steps on this journey with us. It’s going to be difficult, but I believe the results will be more rewarding than we could begin to imagine. To open up these conversations, to start educating our kids in porn, in what they choose to watch or they make an effort to avoid. In the hope that in the future, our children can have healthy, respectful and loving relationships with their partners – and with themselves.

There are articles and videos here, and if you have any questions you can leave them in the comments below or email us at talk@thepornconversation.org

I look forward to hearing your views! Let’s start educating our kids in porn. Time for The Porn Conversation.

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NEW RELEASE | XConfessions
Hysterical Piano Concert

I’m a pianist with a dream. I want to perform nude on a stage, the audience is watching me and I can feel their eyes on my body, on my skin. As I play they come closer to me and the piano, and all of the sudden I’m surrounded by the crowd. When my music comes to the end, they approach even more, and I get more excited and confused. I climax, the song ends, they applaud…

Welcome back Lusties! This week on XConfessions I have a very special film for you. The anonymous member of the public who confessed thier story was inspired by Stoya et al in the deliciously erotic and imaginative Hysterical Literature! If you haven’t seen it before, you need to check out the trailer below. Five women read from thier favourite books whilst thier partner, unseen, stimulates them with a vibrator under the table. It is inspiring, spine-tingling and hilarious!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PQuT-Xfyk3o&oref=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.youtube.com%2Fwatch%3Fv%3DPQuT-Xfyk3o&has_verified=1

For Hysterical Piano Concert however, I wanted to take the story on an even more voyeurisitc, erotic journey. While our beautiful pianist, played by the enthralling Monica Ox, is performing an intimate concert, she is overwhlemed with sexual desire. She imagines herself performing naked, whilst being watched. Her magnetic sexuality enthralls her audience, bringing one watcher (played by one of my favourite people of all time, Maria Riot) to a point of ecstacy whilst seated in her chair. Jowy & Eze move from behind the curtain and start to caress and kiss her whilst she plays, and as the music starts building towards a climax, Joel Tomas enters, bending her over the piano and driving her to a point of wild abandon. The exquisite intimacy of the setting, and whole focus on our lead woman makes this one of my most entrancing films yet, and I am super proud of it! Watch the trailer below:

https://vimeo.com/190084362

The performers are beautifully matched, igniting the screen with ferocious passion, and the scenes with multiple performers touching and caressing the pianist are exquisite in their gentle touches and light kisses.

And you can watch it now on XConfessions!

The song she is playing is “Gymnopedie” by the French composer, Eric Satie. The beauty of the solo piano takes us towards a cresecendo that is at once highly sexual and moving in it’s delicacy. We had a lot of fun on this shoot as we also had Netflix on set filming us, for a super exciting but top secret upcoming project with them! You can also spot a few of our team from the office making up the audience of the concert. They had to wait three hours before they could do their scene, and they weren’t told what they would be doing or what would happen! It was also kept a secret that the performers would be masturbating in the audience while watching… So it was quite amusing when they realised what was happening! We also had a particularly grumpy waiter who clearly was not appreciating the revolutionary work we were doing on set… But overall, the shoot was a lot of fun, and I really enjoyed sinking my teeth into something naturally moving and organic in it’s sexuality.

You can watch my interviews here with Joel, Eze & Jowy and Maria!

In XConfessions, people from all over the world share their sexual stories and fantasies. Every month I pick two and turn them into cinematic short films. Still not a member of XConfessions? Register now! Or share your sexual fantasy, and it might become a short film

* All photos in this post: Are by Adriana Eskenazi

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“It’s time for porn to change, and for that we need women, we need women in the leadership roles, as producers, as directors as scriptwriters. I don’t want to get women out of porn. I want to get women into porn. We need women in porn. Behind the camera”  (Erika Lust for TEDxVienna December 2014)

 

I am opening a call worldwide for female film directors. I want to find the next wave of adult female filmmakers, who please the eyes and tantalize the senses, who inspire and arouse and contribute to my mission to change porn.

 

I believe in having women behind the camera in all key positions, and the importance of the female gaze in a male dominated porn industry. I have produced and directed over 100 shorts, and have more than 100,000 members on my site XConfessions, where anonymous members of the public submit their fantasies and experiences; out of which I choose two a month to interpret into adult cinematic shorts.

  

ABOUT THE PROJECT

After working with several guest directors  I have decided that I want to continue producing adult cinema with women at the helm. A good example of my work with other directors is this recent short, The Bitchhiker, on XConfessions.com , directed by Olympe de G– watch the trailer below.

 

 

I have budgeted €250,000 for the project as a whole, with different amounts dedicated to different films. I am offering my support and funding for you to make a short film with explicit sex. You will need to source your own cast and crew, locations, write your script. You will have creative control, but we will be your support: especially in terms of legal aspects, documentation, information about working in adult cinema and finding appropriate performers. I want to start a global community of female filmmakers. I want to confront mainstream porn and make feminist erotica relevant, not the exception. I want a new kind of adult cinema to spread across the world and I am looking for women to help me. 

 

ABOUT YOU

I am looking mainly for women. I need creative minds with filmmaking experience. If your idea is great, and you can get a cast and crew, we’ll talk about business

 

I’d rather not give these opportunities to those already making adult cinema – rather I want to reach minds that are untapped and perhaps haven’t even considered making erotica before discovering that it can be realistic, representative and artistic.

 

I want applicants from all over the world. We will be producing 10 short films made by new female directors during 2017.

 

WHAT YOU NEED TO HAVE

–       Proven experience in filmmaking (Do you have a reel?)

–       A desire to represent female sexuality outside of mainstream clichés

–       The time and dedication to make a short film

–       A script/treatment/moodboard of your idea

–       A budget (I have allocated €250,000 for the whole project, not per film)

–       Understanding of my ethics and my films

  

HOW TO APPLY

You need to send an email, and you need to prove you are legit! If you can send us a PDF dossier of all your materials (not too much please!) including;

–       Script/treatment and moodboard for a film no longer than 15 mins

–       A profile on yourself and your experiences in film + CV

–       A short explanation of your vision and why you want to be involved in the project.

 

Send your application to  me and I’ll get back to you soon: erikalust@lustfilms.com

I look forward to working with you!

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The images used are courtesy of the Ruby Cup facebook page!

Hello Lusties! And Happy nearly Thanksgiving!  

We have a new product in the Lust Store! And I’m super excited to introduce it to you. You may have noticed that after releasing my film Can Vampires Smell My Period? that there’s been a lot of talk on all my platforms about menstruation and sex. So in the spirit of the (slightly controversial) American holiday of thanksgiving – a holiday that celebrates what Americans are thankful for, followed the day after by climbing over each other to buy a TV on Black Friday – I wanted to draw your attention to a product that, in my eyes, is pretty revolutionary. And I, for one, am thankful for! The Ruby Cup Menstrual Cup.

Want more period stuff? We have a new category on XConfessions under “menstruation” here 

RubyCup is a company that makes menstrual cups for your periods. But not only that, they are a charity – and for every cup that they sell, they donate one to a young girl in rural parts of Africa who can’t afford to buy sanitary items. In places such as Kenya, the percentage of girls who miss school when they are on their periods is a whopping 36%. And if you miss school for the duration of your period, that can add up to around two months of the year. If it wasn’t hard enough to get girls equal opportunities for education globally, not being able to manage your periods is making it even harder.

Interested? We are now selling them on my Lust Store! Plus the Ruby Cup Sterilizer, to clean your Ruby Cup between periods. And if you’re still unsure, here is a guide on how to use them:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L9wQZy0qF7w

I’ve spoken before about the taboo of menstruation, and I think it’s more important than ever that we keep discussing the subject. We live in the 21st Century, where sanitary products should be readily available and easy to use for everyone! What’s more, using something like a menstrual cup is not only good for you, but good for the environment. The cup lasts up to ten years – compared with the thousands of tampons and pads that we as women would use in that amount of time, it seems obvious to me that encouraging anyone who is willing to try to be able to access these amazing products. 

Look out for my interview with the women of Ruby Cup in the next few weeks – we’ll be talking menstruation, sex, adult cinema and the taboo of periods!

Hot Tip: We also sell soft tampons on the Lust Store so you can have sex any time of the month! Check them out here.

And don’t forget to check out Can Vampires Smell My Period?, based on an anonymous confession on XConfessions about menstruation, oral sex and vampires… and submit your own period related confessions – no sign-up or registration needed!

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NEW RELEASES | Lust Cinema
Merger by Spark Erotic

It’s that time again! We have a new release on Lust Cinema today, and it’s from a new Production Company all the way from Colorado. Spark Erotic, with director Urvashi, present Merger. Angel and Heidi Cruz are two high powered business execs in a meeting to negotiate a merger of their companies. But during the meeting, Heidi drifts off into a fantasy (or is it a memory?) of a passionate and fiery hookup with her soon-to-be business partner. The only question is, who’s going to come out on top? Trailer below!:

Merger by the Colorado based production company Spark Erotic slots right into the high-powered, feminist category. What I really like about this film is the power play between our two main characters – throughout the film they have equal power and control in every situation, especially during the sex. She’s a high-powered business exec who is not afraid to drift off into a fantasy about the sexy man sitting opposite her – and in her fantasy she remains as confident and dynamic as she is in real life.

It begins with the two of them getting dressed. We’re shown that they are both sexy, both rich, and both oozing confidence and sexuality. The soundtrack is a guitar thumping rock sound, that totally nails the dynamic between the two of them. Heated, passionate, fast-paced and horny as hell! He arrives at her office (a nice touch, to see him entering her domain), and in silence they face off against each other, the sexual tension palpable to everyone in the room. As the meeting begins, Miss. Cruz drifts off into her fantasy, that begins with her grabbing Angel by the tie and pushing him up against a wall. She rips open his shirt and drags him into her bedroom, where he picks her up and she pulls him about by his tie. They have a pillow fight, gorgeously combined with their natural laughter and slow motion shots of feathers falling all around them.

Heidi’s beautiful curvaceous figure combined with Angel’s strong arms and intense gaze makes for a truly erotic experience. Their passion and power-play is interlaced by the natural way they touch each other, caress each other. Spark Erotic is a new company, but they clearly have big things coming their way!

Watch it now in Lust Cinema!

Or download in HD in my store

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The British government are certainly living up to the age-old stereotype of the English being prudish. After the outcry two years ago where facesitting and squirting were both deemed “dangerous” content in pornography, and subsequently banned from being shot in content produced in the UK, the British Government are at it again.

New legislation is set to ban a number of acts within online pornography that is deemed, wait for it, “non-conventional”. If it’s approved by MPs, the BBFC, which is the British Board of Film Classification, which classifies the content we see in cinemas and on T.V., would have control over regulating and rating online pornography. These are the same people, bear in mind, who classify a rape scene as appropriate for a 12A, but a flacid penis as only appropriate for 18+.

As The Independent has reported, the content that will be censored will be scenes featuring:

–    infliction of pain or acts which may cause lasting physical harm

–    sexual activity which involves real or apparent lack of consent

–    penetration by any object associated with violence

–    sexual threats, humiliation or abuse which do not form part of a clearly consenting role-playing game

–    any form of physical restraint which prevents participants from indicating a withdrawal of consent

–    material (including dialogue) likely to encourage an interest in sexually abusive activity which may include adults role-playing as non-adults

Although facesitting, squirting and many other acts that are, while performed in consensual circumstances, completely harmless, have previously been banned from being filmed in the UK, these new regulations would also restrict anyone in the UK from watching these acts. It is also important to notice what has been deemed “non-conventional” here. They have heavily focussed on practices associated with BDSM – coincidentally at a time where BDSM is more in the mainstream consciousness than ever before. What they haven’t banned are things that, to me, seem equally non-conventional, but are perhaps instances where the female is used as an object while the men are gaining pleasure from her; i.e. a gangbang, double penetration or age-play (which is more often than not, in mainstream porn, girls who look underage with much older men).

So far, the only proposed consequence of viewing this material would be the website being blocked by internet providers. There would also be stricter ages restrictions. But are we naïve enough to believe that this will be as far as this censorship goes?

Mainstream pornography has a lot to answer for: the majority of content within mainstream porn is violently misogynistic; categorises performers and acts within racist genres and homophobic capacities; and is edcuating young people about sex in ways that are totally unrealistic and actually damamging to thier self-esteems, future sex lives and relationships to each other.

However, education and not censorship is the way forward. As a society we cannot stop this content being made – it will just become illegal, which won’t stop it being made or watched either. What needs to happen is for the demand for chauvinistic mainstream porn to decrease – and for more people to start engaging with ethical pornography that embraces sex-positivity and realistic depictions of sex. We need all body types and skin tones, all genders and sexualities and all kinds of fetishisms and desires to be represented, sensitively.

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NEW RELEASE | XConfessions
Sweet But Psycho

I have a new release on XConfessions! And this one is super exciting. We have four of my absolute favourite performers – all real-life friends, performing for the first time ever all together! They are also four of the most famous faces in alternative indie adult cinema: Amarna Miller, Mickey Mod, Vex Ashley and Owen Gray! Sweet But Psycho is based on an absolutely hilarious confession about swingers; and my film is a foursome that, I hope, looks like so much fun that you will be green with envy!

Rural house in the forest, 2 hours away from civilization, we serve the best organic food, we are also a digital detox resort (no wifi, no 3g, almost no network). We are a caring and loving couple, you will never regret spending a healthy and happy weekend at our place. 7 rooms, organic cotton sheets, swimming pool, bbq. You name it, we provide.
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(What they don’t tell you is that you go there, and this couple walk around half naked in the house, and they are constantly grabbing each other, hitting on my man, trying to swing. It was psycho, but sweet… but psycho.)

From TripAdvisor’s confession Sweet But Psycho.

Exclusive interviews here with Amarna, Mickey and Vex.

Following excellent ratings on the Trip Advisor website, Amarna and Mickey book a room in a guest house in the mountains of Spain. When they arrive however, it appears that they are the only guests in the hotel, along with their attractive yet disconcertingly friendly hosts – Vex and Owen.

After lightly joking that they will probably be “having an orgy after lunch”, Mickey and Amarna head down to have an awkward and tension filled meal with their enigmatic hosts. After several glasses of wine however, the guests stars to loosen up, and are seduced into a cheeky dip in the pool… What happens next, you’ll have to watch and see!

I’ve worked with Amarna so many times now and been so impressed with her, that I decided to release a special collection!

Amarna for XConfessions is available on my store, and features 8 steamy, fetishistic and deeply erotic films! 

I so enjoyed working with four people who know and care about each other so well and so deeply. I feel like the chemistry between them is deliciously palpable: the film is filled with giggling and laughter, but also an easy-going atmosphere that I wanted to use to highlight how comfortable they are with each other. Because of this, it feels like a truly voyeuristic experience, witnessing real people having very real sexual pleasure with each other. A highlight is the ever-alluring Amarna giggling and saying “No, I don’t want to come yet! I want to last longer!” By keeping moments like this in the film, and in fact highlighting them, I wanted to capture and explore a natural realism and sensuality within a scene that, in mainstream porn, would normally have the two lead men high-fiving each other or ignoring each other – instead, I ensured all the performers have equal screen time, seem equally satisfied and all having an incredible time.

We had an incredibly fun day on set too – with the barbecue and the baking heat. The crew even took a dip in the pool to cool down! I really enjoyed working with all of these performers – and you can guarantee that, if they want to, we will definitely be working together again! Keep your eyes peeled for the upcoming films featuring more of Owen Gray too – we have Feminist and Submissive and I’m Obsessed With Owen Gray coming up in the next few months….

Watch Sweet But Psycho on XConfessions now!

In XConfessions, people from all over the world share their sexual stories and fantasies. Every month I pick two and turn them into cinematic short films. Still not a member of XConfessions? Register now! Or share your sexual fantasy, and it might become a short film

* All photos in this post: Are by Adriana Eskenazi

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We have a new artist on XConfessions!

I first spotted Polly’s incredible illustrations in Dazed Magazine. She had illustrated a young girl with her hand in her knickers, with her laptop out whilst looking at her phone, and I found it at once hilarious and profoundly accurate. The younger generations who have grown up with technology will probably relate to it more than I do, but still – the multi-tasking of masturbation and checking your emails is very amusing.

When I contacted her to ask her to collaborate with me on XC, I was expecting a smart woman with a lot to say. But after interviewing her, she has blown my expectations out of the water! Exploring feminism and navigating the language of being a young woman in the 21st century through her art, Polly has some super interesting things to say. Read on to find out more!

Can you tell me a bit about how and when you started working in this style?

I’ve been working in this particular style for about 2 years now. I started out just drawing small black and white doodles of girls and devils that I would upload on to Instagram. It was just a bit of fun at the beginning but people seemed to like them and they started getting a bit of an online following. It just kept growing from there really, my drawings progressed to bigger more colourful images and the characters and stories kept growing.

What made you want to collaborate with XConfessions?

I first heard of XConfessions last year when I came across an interview with Erika Lust on Dazed Digital. For years me and my girl friends had been discussing the problems with porn, everything from the lack of female pleasure to the unnecessarily derogatory titles on most well-known porn sites. Most of us had a complicated relationship with this kind of porn – some of us had grown up watching it but felt it had given us a very warped idea of sex and female sexuality, some of us felt it had a negative affect on our partner’s sexual behavior and our relationships and all of us agreed that the porn industry desperately needed more female directors, to offer some sort of balance to this very male centric representation of sex. So it was really refreshing coming across Erika and XConfessions and I’ve been keen to collaborate ever since.

I feel like much of your narrative is about the female identity. Is that true?

Yeah, I’ve always mainly drawn female characters but the style of the characters has definitely shifted over the years. As a teenager I was really self conscious and I obsessed over any imperfections in a really unhealthy way. This is something that I feel like too many young girls are taught to do in our society as we are fed the idea that our value lies in our appearance and how well we fit a very narrow ideal of beauty within our western culture. Back then I’d draw girls with long legs, tiny waists, big breasts, lips and eyes, these characters would reflect the way I felt I was supposed to look as a female.

As I’ve grown up and into my own skin, my characters have definitely grown with me and I want to move away from this ever-present focus on girls’ appearances. I want to create artwork that instead focuses on how it feels being a girl today.

Is there a story behind the recurring demon in your images?

I draw them as part of the female character’s imagination, a grotesque and unstable part of herself that she keeps from the rest of the world, a devilish manifestation of her anxieties, frustrations and desires.

I love the way you intertwine grotesque imagery like peeling off a layer of skin, with casual eroticism. What is the inspiration there?

Thanks! In these images where she is home alone with nobody around to judge, I like to imagine her peeling off her human skin to release the unapologetic beast hidden inside her. By doing so she removes herself from the pressures and expectations of the outside world and she is finally able to satisfy her own basic urges and needs with no regard for anybody else.

What’s in the future for your work?

I’ve just finished working on this animation Halfway To Nowhere with animator Andy Baker. It was really amazing watching my characters come to life. I’m definitely keen to do more animation work in the future. I’m also in the very early stages of a fashion collaboration with my favorite designer and illustrating a book for Bloomsbury. Other than that I’m trying to get new artwork done for my next solo exhibition.

If you could describe yourself in one image, what would that be?

‘Learned to hide my crazy’ best represents me best at this point in my life because I’ve kind of managed to get my shit together for now but who knows how long it will last.

Did you ever find a good visual representation of an orgasm? If so, can you share it with us?

Probably either of these two…

Polly Nor’s work has illustrated two confessions so far, Una Noche Fria and Autogynephilia. Check it out, and more info about her and her work, on XConfessions!

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I am very pleased and excited to announce the launch of a new project – The Porn Conversation.

Myself and my partner Pablo Dobner have two beautiful children. And while the work that we do (Pablo is the CEO of Erika Lust Films) has so far been a separate part of our lives to that of our children, they are getting to an age where we know that soon they will start stumbling across the kind of mainstream porn online that we have spent the past decade trying to combat. According to statistics, children as young as 9 or 10 are accidentally viewing pornography – whether it’s through a nasty pop-up that slips past content controls on their iPad, or something their older friends show them, or any number of different scenarios.

So we started talking with each other about what we can do to protect our children. How can we help them to understand what it is that they are going to be seeing? How will they know that what they see isn’t realistic – in fact, the majority of mainstream porn is violently misogynistic, with damaging ideas about how men and women should look and behave, especially during sex? Are they getting the right kind of Sex Ed at school that will prepare them for encountering this kind of content? And what effect will it have on a generation who seem to learn most of what they know from what they see online – especially sex.

We realised that the responsibility for our children lay in our hands. That having a conversation with them, sooner rather than later, seemed like the best solution to the pervasive ideas of pornography that are going to being to infiltrating their lives before they are ready to understand it, let alone be of an appropriate age to be watching it.

And we also realised that this subject is still a huge taboo – and an even larger one in terms of talking to kids and teenagers about it. It is difficult and horrifying enough to think about having the “birds and the bees” chat with our teenagers – but to talk to them about porn? That sends shivers down our spines. But what is the other alternative? That they watch this content and feel like those are the ways in which they should treat each other? That men and women shouldn’t have hair, or cellulite, or an ounce of fat? That defining your sexuality in terms of racial categorisations is acceptable, or that lesbianism is only a tool to attract men?

The Porn Conversation is our attempt to help. To start an online community of people that start talking about porn with each other, and with their children. We have created guides for three different age demographics, that parents can use to start thinking about and having the porn talk with their own children, plus an ever-growing archive of videos and articles around the subject, so that you don’t have to rely on our experiences as parents and creators in the adult cinema industry. It is a not for profit project, built purely with the intention of starting a global conversation about porn and it’s role in all of our lives. But especially in the lives of our children.

I hope that if you are a parent you are ready to take the first steps on this journey with us. It’s going to be difficult, but I believe the results will be more rewarding than we could begin to imagine. To open up these conversations, to start educating our kids in porn, in what they choose to watch or they make an effort to avoid. In the hope that in the future, our children can have healthy, respectful and loving relationships with their partners – and with themselves.

There are articles and videos here, and if you have any questions you can leave them in the comments below or email us at talk@thepornconversation.org

I look forward to hearing your views! Let’s start educating our kids in porn. Time for The Porn Conversation.

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NEW RELEASES | Lust Cinema
The Engagement Party by New Sensations

We have another release on Lust Cinema this week! And I’m bringing you another from one of my favourite production houses: The Engagement Party by New Sensations!

Lee Roy Meyers is back to Lust Cinema. And this time with a hot, 4-scenes feature film exploring love, romance, and desire. The heart wants what the heart wants, and Meyers explores that to several steamy climaxes!

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How much do I love Amarna Miller? Enough to curate all of the films we’ve made together and release it as a special edition, that’s how much!

Use code 20AMARNA for 20% off the collection!

Amarna has been with me since the very beginning of XConfessions. And this week I have released 8 short films featuring the alluring, quirky and kinky ingenue that is Amarna Miller. But Amarna is not just a performer! She’s just spent 30 days living in her van and has created a youtube channel for it; she regularly appears on Spanish television and in mainstream Spanish media discussing adult cinema, her role as an actress and the future of feminist and alternative indie adult cinema; and she is an accomplished Director!

Her work in the adult industry has been so varied – she is truly able to embody any character, any situation that she wants to. For my most recent collaboration with her she performed with Mickey Mod, Vex Ashley and Owen Grey in Sweet But Psycho as a naïve and shy young woman who is eventually seduced into swinging with her husband. She also performs with Mickey in An Appointment With My Master in a totally different scenario, where she visits a BDSM master and is tortured and teased for a whole afternoon between doing her grocery shopping and cooking dinner for herself.

Plus, did you know that on my Lust Store you can pay to have unique (non-sexual) experiences with some of my favourite performers? This includes exploring the Prado in Madrid with Amarna!

But that’s not all! On Lust Cinema (a membership streaming adult cinema platform) and Erotic Films (a pay-per-stream adult cinema platform), both of which I run and curate, we have a selection of films starring Amarna, plus three directed by her, which is all available to download on the Lust Store!

Fit by Joybear, Los Angeles by Nympho Ninjas, and Everything Is For You by Nico Bertrand, plus…

3 by Amarna, which features three short films, two of which star Amarna and all of which are directed by her: one a POV blowjob, one a woman masturbating and one of Amarna and Mickey in a passionate vanilla scene.

Or are you already a member of XConfessions? Or not heard of Amarna (where have you been?!) and want to check out some of our films together? Here is the complete list of all of her XConfessions below:

• Manual del Placer
• Latex Sessions
• Do you find my feet “suckable”?
• An Appointment With My Master
• Sit Down, Shut Up and Watch
• Romance Bullshit
• Before the Guests Arrive
• Sweet But Psycho

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NEW RELEASE | XConfessions
Let Me See Your Ponytail Swing/I Want A Viking Warrior

We all know the clichés – you get married, you screw like bunnies for the first years/months/days depending how lucky you are, and then the sex dries up, you start to squeeze each other’s pimples and before you know it, it’s been 6 months since you even saw a pair of lacy knickers or a vibrating cock ring.

That is why this week with my latest confession, Let Me See Your Ponytail Swing/ I Want A Viking Warrior, I decided to tackle the stereotypical old trope of the “boring married couple”. Taking two separate confessions from XConfessions, I’ve created something (I hope!) that perhaps reminds you of your own situation, or situations you’ve been in, and might give you some encouragement into how to break the ice and get back to shagging your brains out. Trailer below!

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Sylvan is convinced his wife is being deliberately unsexy, with her plastic mouth-guard and her baggy pyjamas. And Viktoria is totally aware of his distaste – but she can’t help being completely turned off by his pleading eyes, just begging for a blowjob. What’s sexy about that? She remembers when they first started dating, how hard his cock would be… and now, who wants to fuck a semi-hard dick? If only he was like he used to be back then. Powerful, passionate, desperate to take her in his arms. Like a sexy viking warrior!

As Sylvan looks over at his wife, he knows there’s an erotic fantasy hiding within her. He just wishes they could explore together. He’s had this fantasy, since he was a teenager, about fucking a cheerleader, and he wants that fantasy to include his wife. With a swinging ponytail and no knickers on under her little skirt, bouncing around on top of him and feeling the joy of sex between them.

I wanted to use these stories to explore the typical clichés with style and humour, rather than as a way to blame one person or gender when it comes to the subject of marriage. I wanted to show what can happen when a couple allows themselves the space to explore with each other – and the results are fierce!

Debuting in her first ever adult film, Viktoria Vaar is a feminist, activist and sex-worker, who, with this release, is “coming out of the closet” to deliberately tackle the stereotypes associated with sex work. Her intelligence, her fiery passion, make her a joy to watch. And she is perfectly matched with Sylvan – a strong, passionate performer with a babyface that you shouldn’t let fool you!

It was an incredible pleasure to work with Viktoria. She is such an intelligent woman, with a fierce sexuality that only serves to empower her more, rather than hinder her. We also worked together on my upcoming short Feminist and Submissive, which includes a round-table discussion between myself, Viktoria, and two others on the subjects of feminism, BDSM and sex work. Hearing her thoughts on these subjects combined with her first experiences of working with me making an adult film was such a pleasure!

This was also my first time working with Sylvan – who is so gorgeous and fun. The chemistry between these two is palpable, and I felt he fitted perfectly with this scene with his combination of sweet eyes and big beard! Watch it now on XConfessions

Has this convinced you to try something new with your partner? Or have you indulged in a role play together? Why don’t you write me your story on XConfessions! It’s free to submit a story, and I might choose it to turn into an erotic shirt film!

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